Not about being big or small. It is about being Healthy .

 So  some of you have seen the photo on my page where there are women standing by each other  with different sizes and different ages. This can be a touchy subject I guess  to some.  This all started when I found a photo on Pinterest where is showed a curvy women  next to a Skinner women and it said " Curvier is way sexier then this" talking about the other Women... I sat and Looked at these women and thought  to my  self.... "These women are both Beautiful" Then I started to think why do we do that?  Why are we bringing each other down for being to big or to slim....  I feel as women we need to stand by each other and build each other up. In my opinion it is not about being big  or small it is about being HEALTHY. It is about treating your body with love and respect. Its learning to love you in your own skin. I'm trying not to get to much of a Spice girl  completion lol Girl power and all that stuff. But this was something  that rely  bothered me... No one is build the same every one is different. If that girl is slimmer then you who cares if she has way more booty then you and  you wish you  had some of that. Fine what ever but  Lets stop  riping on each other for being a different body build then you. Im in no means bragging  but want to share some of my personal exspirance. Growing up I was made fun of and bullied Because people thought I was to thin. And I was.. thin I had a very high high metabolism and I had a very hard time gaining LBS.  I was harassed people spreed rumors  saying how Id throw up after eating I was fallowed in to the bath room because they wanted to see if I would puke. It was awful  I Hated going to school I felt bad about my self. My  point is why do you have to make some one feel bad? you do not know there issues or problems. so BACK OFF.   Help each other stand by each other. There is  saying I like  it goes like this " You can tell who the strong women are. They are the ones you see building one another up instead of tearing each other down." You are you for a reason. Jealousy gets no one anywhere . Be proud  of who  you are. Rember its not about being big or small its about being Healthy and taking care of your self.